By Dave Andrews
Impress a classy woman like Bella Thorne by being emotionally competent and understanding what really matters in life.
Sometimes, when a friend asks you to listen, just give him a chance to talk and vent his feelings. You may be helping him figure out something life-changing on his part or you may be saving his life.
I suffered from depression three years ago. I was overwhelmed by all the things that were happening in my life, such as family issues, a cheating fiancé and stress at work.
I didn’t want my friends to know about my situation because I was ashamed and I was afraid I’d be misunderstood. So, I just avoided them and let myself drown in my own loneliness and frustrations.
However, the pain became addictive to the point that I had to harm myself to feel it. It made me feel less vulnerable and less weak.
One day, I was alone in my apartment and I just felt like ending it all. However, the world seems to have a way of working things out in life. A former colleague of mine, who had a new business in the area, just decided to check in on me by chance and showed up at my front door.
A little action can make a profound difference.
He was so shocked to see me in my condition. I hadn’t shaved and showered for days so you could only imagine how trashy and stinky I was.
I let him in and I just cried. He just let me vent out everything. It was unfair for him, I know. But man, I was at my lowest point. I didn’t care about my life; so basically I didn’t care about anything else either.
That day, I had my second chance. I would forever be thankful that he listened and helped me ease my troubles. I may have taken a couple hours of his time, but it was the worth of my life.
The problem with many of us is that we give more attention to the monetary value of things that we fail to see the worth of simple yet priceless things.
Paying attention to details is essential to success.
Actually, it is considered genius according to this piece by The Spirit Science.
It says that analyzing small details, worrying too much and perceiving problems that are not yet in existence could make you one of the most creative people on the planet.
Life has many aspects and it would be wrong to just focus on one area. So, before you complain about a certain problem, try to examine yourself first, take a look around you and search for the beautiful things that you failed to see.
To advance in life, we have to understand the principle of intelligent sacrifice.
Let’s get real, guys. There’s a price for everything. We all have to do or give up something in order to get what we want, right?
However, in order to make it meaningful or something that is guaranteed to lead to incredible and life-changing results, we have to learn to make intelligent choices.
Adam Toren of Entrepreneur explains this concept in his piece “How to Make Money Using 12 Billionaires’ Investing Secrets.”
The writer finds it interesting how people would choose to spend their money on their expensive lattes than invest it in stocks. Aside from being unwise, these people don’t think of the importance of saving for their future.
Guys, we have to start taking money seriously. The less we spend on unnecessary expenses, the more savings we have. All the decisions and choices we make are significant factors that determines our future.
A disciplined approach to life leads to growth and development.
There is a great deal of power in practicing discipline. It is so strong that it could enable us to resist temptations.
In fact, it goeshand in hand with making intelligent sacrifices, which means giving up something that is of low nature to get a thing of higher nature.
And nothing teaches discipline better than fitness training, from creating a simple meal plan, setting measurable goals and achieving a healthy body.
So, start making a big difference by doing these abs exercises to get you beach body ready for the summer.
If you want to maintain good connections and relationships, you have to understand the virtue of reciprocity.
It is an unwritten rule of society and one of the keys in nurturing relationships. You can’t just keep on taking all the time. It might not be exactly what you want, but you have to learn to give back and share.
Without reciprocity, there will be imbalance and the relationship could break down.
The other day, I came across this story about a woman whose BF was constantly demanding oral attention, but was not interested in having sex with her. Selfish, right?
The moral lesson is do everything in your power to make sure that your GF or your partner is as sexually satisfied as you. Learn to return the favor.
One of the ugliest truths about life is that somehow it is like a game based on numbers and calculations.
But, if you have a clear understanding of the value of everything, with or without a price tag, big or small, you will learn how to appreciate life more and realize that attitude is far more valuable than any other material thing in the world.
Just like Bella Thorne! For this hot lady, beauty is more than just pretty face and a smoking hot body. It’s all about giving to the community and helping the needy as well. She enjoys volunteering at the Nomad Organization and is currently sponsoring a child in Kenya.
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